"Past is Past"

Strongly bad past

How do we define past? The experiences we’ve been through; the struggles and happiness we felt or the moments we captured by our hearts that we never had moved on.  The saying “past is past” is what mostly people tell to broken hearted. It might be sounds annoying of the repeating quote but I guess it is also a helpful manner for a woman/man.

Boys easily forget or stop thinking about what they have done. They even easily move ahead from the “past”. However, girls also easily forgive a man’s mistake but it will take a long long time to forget the “past” especially when pain arouses. It was never been easy for a girl to take risk and give second chances if not third or fourth time. Same with the feelings of a guy it’s too hard for them to accept the fact that they were jerked by a gal. But why both of them still gives chances? For the reason of “past is past” so we tend to forget and forgive? Otherwise giving chances it is because a person is ready to take all the risk how to trust AGAIN. I guess I’m wrong, a wo/man gives chances cause he/she trusts that person can change in a better way. It is not because we are so obsessed with that someone but we are believing on the capacity of that person to right his/her mistakes. Once we decide of giving chances, never regret instead be happy on loving each other.

Always buried all the negative films from past but brings up the positive pictures until the end of time. Move forward, past doesn’t matter at all. The most important is how you deal with your present today.

Credits to Sittie Baunto for giving advices how to dwell past.